People Fall in Love with the Templates. That's the truth :)
And then, they realize that it's fucked. Not always though.
I was cycling the usual road. The sky was just as blue as it is today. Perhaps, a little brighter because two years has passed. And global warming is messing with our Blue Planet :)
Back then, one of the two cycles which we had in our home was stolen by a thief. So, I used to go to the Karate on my Mom’s ladies cycle. Btw, I’m not a misogynist.
By ‘Ladies cycle’ I mean those cycles which don’t have a rod in the front.
Ok… that sounds sus ;) Let me show you the pic…
Yeah now it’s clear :)
Mom used to prefer the scooter and basically that cycle was mine. I used to have no tension when I put my bags in the basket in the front 😊 and also, that used to be a lot of help whenever I went to shop the grocery and other things…
Karate was a relief. Because first of all, the cricket academy was suffocating (for me). Good coaches, amazing friends, fun… but I didn’t love it. I was very enthusiastic about cricket when I was in grade 6 and 7 but then, I didn’t like it… I hated it. I hated all those working outs, catching the ball, doing shadow practice, etc.
I didn’t ‘had it’ in me. That was not ‘me’.
I was super excited about karate 🙂. Especially fighting. I have never fought someone or punched someone in the face. Actually, I was like a monk when I was a child. I would rather get punched and say sorry and then try to convince my enemy that he is wrong. 😅
Yeah Gandhi ji! Passive Resistance. Soul Power.
Back then, I couldn’t fight. That’s why I chose that way. Now, I can kill with my bare hands. I’m resisting for the moral reason of humanity, obviously.
Karate has a special place in my heart.
I experience what ‘love’ meant.
After reading a thousand stories… I finally understood what that four lettered word really meant. Especially in the romantic sense.
Because yes, it took me about two weeks to realize that I have something called a ‘crush’ on a ‘girl’. 😂😂😂
And I had that crush for like over 2 years! One-sided love!
And when it’s one-sided, it does hurt.
She looked bright. She was too perfect on the outside to be true. Her hair, Her smile… I liked her smile.
Radha’s one is better. And Radha is beyond comparison.
But here’s the funny part which is the reason of the title today…
People fall in love with templates.
Two years is a long time. And you will laugh on this that… I never even physically talked to this girl. It was just infatuation of a childish immature 12 year old kid who only cared about animes 👾, getting the top grades, and other bullshit. 🤓
It was my imagination all along.
And now after 4 years, I look back… only to realize that it’s not very different for everyone.
We see someone. She/he looks nice and amazing on the outside. And when you try to use your time to look into someone deeply, you see their dark parts.
What’s the humans fault?
Even the Moon tries hide its black parts.
Template… As human beings we make up and live in those vivid imaginations and stories which we tell to our head. We imagine the world is colorful… the world is suddenly colorful.
It’s just like if you think hard about a red car, you will see a red car.
Nazrein badlo toh nazarien badal jaate hain.
(If you change how you look at things, the things change.)
The subconscious has the immense power to change the actual reality.
Good news: Every single person has the power to use this immense power.
Bad news: 90% humans aren’t even conscious enough to use just 10% of this capability.
Yeah, ‘manifesting’ is a small part which is famously popular.
The more amazing things we see or hear about someone, the more his mental image becomes in our eyes.
Oh Wow! my friend has a million bucks in his bank account. He has a patent too. Even though he is exactly my age, he has 1 Range Rover of his own money.
Well, I met that guy and spend over 2-3 months. He is a childish kid and an idiot :)
Our brains get easily fooled. While some use it to their advantage. Most of us are getting fooled every moment of what they tell themselves. But still their brain takes in that information and makes the reality like that.
Templates make no sense when it comes to the matters of love. In love… you are not only blind. You are also deaf.
For those who love conditionally.
And love is deaf… see this video you’ll understand :)
Well…
It doesn’t matter how much my close friends warned about her. I still went into that relationship. But I couldn’t have heed to them… because that’s human nature.
To try and then, to sink. And if you are smart enough, you will learn to not make that same mistake. But you will never heed to the advices if a situation is different (again).
And then, I felt suffocated.
And there was no care. It was me giving and giving… care, support, long texts and she taking and taking :)
Anyways, I got out. And now, I’m at a better place and with a better person.
She is no less than a goddess in human disguise.
Heaven is a place with you, Radha.
A man or any woman is hollowed. And only the person who musters up the courage to take up this mortal vessel… only and only he knows how dark and hollowed he is.
Love is different. From a nihilistic perspective (and as a huge JJK fan (I completed the entire manga in 40 days): Love is the most twisted curse of all.
Perhaps, that was the main reason why Gojo never let himself experience love was.
He knew that the world would one day crumble upon the darkness irrespective of how powerful he was or he became. That’s why if you critically look at Gojo’s character, you will notice that look on his eyes… that nihilistic blue hollowness that shudders a fear of death in the curses and in his enemies.
But as I said, Love is different. For a normal man who lives in this normal world… For that mortal man, love could be the best (not one of the best) emotion and experience which any man could ever experience in his mortality.
Love even transcends the sexual carnal desire.
SPOILER: READ COMPLETELY 👇. YOU’LL REGRET IF YOU MISS A WORD..
When you are in love…
your world is suddenly a bit brighter.
If you fall in love with the right person… you will see that there is hope in every little thing of which that person is a part of. Whether it’s studying hard to get into a really amazing college, so that you can earn an amazing reputation and respect and don’t have any issue of convincing your beloved’s family about being together…
Or even if it’s just earning a simple $5 all by yourself to buy her a present for a special occasion.
Things truly are of super importance when you are doing it for someone, for someone you care about, for that someone you love… rather than doing it for yourself.
Your imagination matches with the reality. That’s when the magic happens and the darkness seems to be negligible now. The light comes in, elevating the darker parts of your world. I truly wish that everyone would realize what true love really means.
Because that would make others see life as it is. In a new and different way.
And there is that one thing that matters the most… if your template and the real person truly coincides with one another. Because… if that happens… trust me, you are blessed.
Out of the 8 billion people who live (perhaps, even more in the future)… you have found your The One.
Protect her.
Don’t let her go.
Make her feel at peace, happy and smile whenever she is around you. Just throw her sincere and genuine compliments. Be straight forward with your intention…
And appreciate those parts which no one has ever noticed…
Most importantly, make her feel at home. With you. And she has to leave for the greater good… Let her go. Because if it was true love, you only should care for her happiness and her priorities first. Even if that means… leaving her.
Radha, I’ll love you till every other stars in this universe dies ;)
That’s all… thanks for reading :)
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