This is exactly why MEN CHEAT
It doesn't matter if you are married or if you have a gf.
Adam was the first made.
What most people don’t know is that before Eve, stepped on the Heavenly land, there was someone called Lilith as the first wife of Adam.
Lilith’s story is a little unknown to a lot of you. Obviously, these things aren’t something that they are willing to teach you in childhood.
There was this incident, when Lilith refused to lay beneath Adam during f*cking, and yup… we come to the feminism part here… So, she showed feminism during lovemaking, and guess what, Adam didn’t like it. Obviously, I too believe that women and men are created equal but the thing is sometimes you need to compromise while being intimate.
In some texts, Lilith is cast as one of the most beautiful women to exist.
And here’s what happened… her children with Adams were demons. She was banished from the Garden of Eden. Adam got a new wife. The type of woman any man would actually love… Caring, Considerate, and Mature.
Happy story? I don’t know.
Because the fact that a lot of people still cheat even if they have an amazing wife is kinda surprising.
Men cheat the most. That’s very common.
WHY? The reason is gonna shock you.
It’s because men are simple creatures. If they need something, they ask and find a way to get it. If they can’t get it, they just simply leave it. And get back home and eat and sleep :)
I was researching for this article before I was writing this (As I always do)... The article was verywell.com said that due to these 8 reasons Men cheat the most: anger, low self-esteem, lack of love, low commitment, need for variety, neglect, sexual desire, and circumstance.
They are not completely wrong. Let me tell you why.
As said before… Men are simple creatures. If we don’t like something, we get angry, and instead of acting super mature like women, we give our anger an outlet.
Let’s clarify one thing first… When I say MAN, I don’t mean just anyone with a masculine thing and a dick. No.
I mean someone who knows his value and self-respect, and he has the power to look people in the eye and keep his own word to others.
The same goes for women.
As a man, we have two primary needs.
Need to be loved EMOTIONALLY: We love someone who is holding our hands during rough times. We can do anything for that one person, who said that she would gonna be there for us… You get what I am tryna say.
SEXUAL NEED: Gays feel it the most. And this need… it’s like a fire that rises up after getting extinguished. Yup, we are not talking about the fire, but rather the urge of fire.
Men have huge sexual needs compared to women.
They watch porn. Women read porn.
They like seeing pussies and dicks. Women like to read sensual stuff.
They really love being seduced. Women like the teasing but not on the same level as men do.
Men can rarely go for round two. Women are multi-orgasmic…
When a ‘man’ is in a relationship, he knows he is committed. For him, the other girls no matter how seductive/hot/sexy they are, don’t catch his eyes. Because he is satisfied with the girl he loves.
So, where does the cheating part come from, Sayak?
It’s when your needs aren’t met. It’s when the SEXUAL Need part isn’t fulfilled by your girlfriend that you slowly start losing your interest in the urge that drives men to crazy heights.
Men primarily lose interest in two ways:
1. Sexually
Having that same body to make love with is often kinda boring for a lot men (over 50%). But I think that’s simply rubbish because if a man really loves you, he would love you unconditionally, & he would make love with that same old body no matter what.
2. Emotionally
When a ‘man’ asks his girlfriend, that he needs her. No matter what, until or unless it’s like flying to a different country but you have no money sort of situation… you should address his needs.
If it’s a possible case like coming over for one hour, you SHOULD DO IT.
Men very rarely open up. And once they are rejected, they start losing trust in that person. They
start losing faith. They start believing she is gonna say NO even why I need her. Men are dumb, if someone says NO, they are more likely to think that they will be rejected by the same person again. I should simply go over someone who is there when I need.
If you are gonna marry someone like that, who can’t even share a quarter of day with you, what’s the point of spending the rest of the years? Why bother putting money over some woman who can’t even 6 hours for all the food & money you would provide for the rest of her life?
Most men don’t care if their girlfriend is a topper, or has huge limbos in her garage.
All they look for is someone who is willing to take care of them when they need & share a shoulder when things get too hard on their shoulders.
Money and Pussy are very powerful motivators for men.
You don’t know how far he can go for achieving a lot of money or getting to fuck the pussy he always wanted to.
Sexual need? Like how…?
If you are a woman and you think that just because you love him like crazy and give away caring texts, he is forever gonna be yours… you are wrong.
Yup, obviously caring texts matter a lot.
But trust me, if you are that gf who avoids sensual sexual stuff or someone who doesn’t show your naughty dirty side to your bf once in a while, you are gonna lose him slowly and steadily.
I have this friend of mine.
He was blabbering about his girlfriend to me.
On how he had sent her 5 nudes of his dick and even though she was like wow, etc. she never sent him a single nude yet.
He was cheating on his girlfriend with another girl.
And this girl was willing to spend her time with him when he wanted.
The thing that shocked me was when I asked ‘Why don’t you FEEL BAD about cheating on your girlfriend?" (PS I wasn’t in a relationship back then).
He said, “It’s not sending… it’s about giving back the trust.
If I can get bold and send someone my nude, she should also trust me enough and send her nude at least once…”
As men, we value actions more than our spoken words. It’s like you say that you trust me with everything and then, you can’t send a pic of your body, even in the disappearing messages.
The SHOCKING fact about Cheating 😂
A lot of my male friends have cheated on their girlfriends.
And the fun fact is: there is no INITIAL regret while fucking some other women’s pussy. Obviously, they hate it once their girlfriends find out, and things get messy. But I guess the explanation is that they are driven by their urges so much that they might forget right or wrong.
I get that women feel uncomfortable while sending nudes.
They say men like sharing images of their dicks… But honestly some people like me, we kinda hate it. Like why do you want to share your private areas with someone else?
But still, we do share it because we trust that person. And when the person doesn’t send back or reciprocate with the trust back, we feel BETRAYED.
We are more ok with showing it in private, in-person…
Anyway, here’s what happens when you don’t send a nude to your bf when he genuinely asks you to do it…
He starts losing the sexual urge for you.
Yup… if he is in a relationship with you, obviously even a little part of him is attracted to the physical features you behold… Might be the thighs, hairs, eyes, etc.
And that’s exactly why men are in situations like… They genuinely love their wife but still, they are fucking some other woman to satisfy their lust.
This lust is not something most men can control. It’s rather a biological innate thing.
That really attracts you. Really attracts the animal inside you.
And yes, if you are a woman, you need to send off some naughty things and show some skin (at least the part that your bf likes physically (Ask him straight. Don’t get fooled by ‘I like your smile’ (If he is saying that, there’s a good chance probably that he has already started losing interest physically in you)))
As a woman, you need to keep the lustful fire burning sometimes. It’s a responsibility for both of you to keep the spark burning.
Else, just wait to see your man fucking some other woman behind your own back.
And if it’s about emotional need. Even if you are a CEO of a big company, try taking out time. Else, one day that nagging of ‘hey you don’t spend time with me…’ would stop. You would suddenly see your man getting SUDDENLY very ‘matured’, he says ‘I understand your work is important...’ Just be sure, that either he is actually getting matured or … something has started to happen/happened.
Either he is getting actually matured (very less chance) or he got someone else to take your place ‘emotionally’. You think that things are well. But the truth is he is simply showing off a mature side to keep you happy and satisfy his own emotional urges with some other woman.
Because again… men are simple creatures. If we see that someone is gonna provide us with sexual need/emotional need (if your gf isn’t providing you with it), we would happily go like an innocent sheep.
Because that’s what men are…
Dumb Innocent Sheep.
Acting like smart and mature foxes.
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